Every kid is different and beautiful in their own way

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All kids are loved by their parent , even if they are fair, dark, slow , fast, talkative, silent. If we love with our heart , we never notice such differences. Differences are seen by those , who are  only looking for faults and those who want to show they are better.

People generally have the tendency to compare kids with one another. That is the worst practice I have ever seen. Don’t they ever think , that the way they express their thoughts  make the parents feel bad.

Let the kids grow on their own pace, every one are born to be different , not same. Can anyone have similar interests and similar tastes in the world, some or the other way everyone differs from one another. Its time every one realise it.

The thought of showing themselves and their own kids more beautiful and excellent , all  feel like belittling others . Outer Beauty never stays forever , any small thing can spoil it , the inner beauty remains forever.

little surprises …

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While I was in kitchen , I heard nandu playing with my mobile , she was around 10 months old then.I couldn’t concentrate in my household work, so I kept checking what she was doing. She keeps on crawling around the house , funny thing was she used to crawl like spiderman :), yes I meant what I said, truly like spiderman.She used to move around , without her knees touching the ground , so it was exactly like the spiderman climbing the building.

Usually, she unlocks my mobile and make calls , I was worried , so i thought its better to keep my mobile away from her  and I took it from her and kept it on the bed . At that time bed was a good option , because Nandu never climbed onto bed, she never knew about it.

Again I returned to the kitchen busy cooking . Even though I will be in kitchen , my ears are always alert ,listening to what nandu is doing.I noticed that suddenly everything was silent, usually when she moved around I can hear her anklets.

I came running from the kitchen , and to my surprise , what I saw , made me stand  agape. I saw my lil sweetheart , on the bed playing with my mobile. I didn’t know what to react ,I stood there with a smile , and she looked at me smiling , showing me the phone and smiling showing her two little teeth.

For a second , many thoughts flashed my mind , how did she do it, if she had fallen down and many more.But another second , looking at her smiling face , which was speaking more than words.Its so adorable to see her do all these naughty things.

She surprises me every time making me love her more and more.

Every parent will have such beautiful memories , which will never fade from their minds. 

Everyone requires someone to talk to…

 

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 At times  in our life , we require someone to talk to , share something with someone , it can be a friend , family or anyone. And at such situation everyone gets landed up with someone ,whom they never thought about or , they must have avoided to talk to many times .

Its a natural behavior , everyone avoid people , who love to talk to them and when time comes , only those who were avoided will be there welcoming you wholeheartedly ,without even showing a grudge .They are the people , whom everyone should treasure.

All can’t solve everyone’s problem , but everyone require someone to talk to. Listening is a humble blessing ,and many does not  posses it.  As we all talk to someone who listens to us , our problems are lessened . 

Have you ever noticed , kids fighting with each other and then complaining  about one another to their parents. What do you see after that , once the parents listen to their complaints , the kids just get back to playing with  each other. No grownups can do it. Some problems do not get solved just because of lack of communication.

Problems when shared with friends , even though they can’t solve them , we feel , that at least there is someone with us. That feeling helps in solving the problems as it builds up self-confidence .

Never avoid someone , who always wish for our friendship and not any benefits.When we listen to someone , we are communicating with their inner feeling , their emotions , and that can be seen on their face and eyes, which can never lie.

Listening to someone is the most sincere form of respect .