Romance and Musings

Nothing better than being with mom

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How much ever we love any one else , nothing can reach the level of our love for our MOM.

No one can replace a mom.When ever am not able to find out what exactly am feeling , she tells me and yes always she is right . When am out of words ,she express it .And how is it so ? Is it magic ?

Its not a joke, mom knows everything, they know why we are sad  , why we are happy and why we are confused too and even when we lie to them. They know everything. God has made moms special I think. Every mom , feels the same affection to their kids , some shows it  , some doesn’t.

I always love to cuddle near my mom , that is like heaven. No comfort place can beat the warmth and love we get near our mom. Whenever I visit my mom , she prepares me all the lovely foodies which  I like and she buys me some cutie earrings or any other things and keeps it  as a surprise for me. It makes me feel like a school going kid again and again.

Whatever happens in our life, even if its our mistake only a mom can support ,no one has such big heart than a lovely mom. How much ever we get time to spend with mom , its never enough, we crave for more and more n more.The most we fight is also with the same person we love the most, because I always fight with her for everything and anyways end up listening to what she likes me to do.

I now realize , how much she loves me, how much she cares for me ,after being a mom.

Romance and Musings

Bed time story

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For past few days , a story has become an unavoidable thing in our bedroom before sleep.

Earlier , when every other parents used to say that, we need to read out a story to our kids , its good for them . Everyone  told me that there were few benefits like ,the first and the foremost kids sleep early , secondly they learn many things through stories and as such many more.

I too thought that , its best way to put her to sleep , I kept trying for many months , and the outcome was total waste of my sleep , because instead my daughter ,it was me who was getting sleepier.

The moment I start to read out a book for her, she snatches it from me and start looking at the pictures and do not allow us to put off the lights until she finishes looking at it at least 5 times  over n over .Then I realized that book was not a good enough idea , so another idea popped up that I will memorize a few stories n tell her.

As I was not a good story teller , I couldn’t memorize or tell her any kind of stories  and it all ended up in a total mess. As such my imagination doesn’t work that well at night especially when am off to bed . I was so ashamed ,that what a mom I was ? Can’t even tell a story to her .So as usual I stopped thinking about it , because , it never gave me any conclusion other than am a failure in story telling. 

I decided not to force her, but one afternoon, as she was watching her favorite stories in TV , I noticed that she was concentrating on the narration ,so I quickly checked out the story, its kind of , I got used to those stories now , as they were being played at least fifty times in our house. That night I told her a story and she slept listening to it , if even I paused , she asked me why did I stop, so I understood she was interested and it made me more happy.

One thing I learnt was that , trying to force something on kids doesn’t help , better is to wait and watch , when the time comes , they will surely follow what we wanted them to do.