Am like stuck between this fight always… one will pull me from one side, another one from other side.
My elder one gets less time with me, as she goes to school, and she has become more lazy in going to school and enjoys being at home with me and her sis. They both fight for getting hold of me, and at times i jump away and hide from both of them.
When they fight, I use the sam technique as my mom used to when myself and my brother used to fight , stay neutral. I think that works better, than taking anyones side. One is emotional , other one is notorious, so its always better not to take anyones side. It saves my time.
While sleeping both need my hand, luckily i have two hands ; ) .
I don’t get to sleep in any position , as both hands keep digging ito my sides , as if they keep searching me in their sleep, and checking whether am there or not. If i hug one, other one also needs, funny part is when my elder one gets any things from me, my younger one also come for the same, even if its beating or a sweet, she doesn’t differentiate both. 😉
The secret happiness in all these ,is that , I love it when they both hold on to me and demand for me, what more a mom can expect from her kids. and I want to love them both the same way more and more every second , even though they irritate me at times.
Still whatever I love you both, now I know when my mom says that she loves me and my brother the same way ,she really means it. Moms love is understood only when we are a mom.