Romance and Musings

Compete to yourself

Am not a person who loves competition. I always admire who are better than me and there are many who are profoundly better than what I am. I learn from them , not to be like them, just trying to imply it in my own way.

During my school days, the biggest trouble for me was to write down the answer in the same way in the textbook. Totally impossible it was. I just wanted to be out of school and do something. The only thought that was pondering my mind was just to be someone important and accomplish what I think was impossible for me.

Everyone thought I was a lazy person, quite underestimated me, but that was my inspiration to my focus. I wanted to improvise what I was and in every step am doing it. I hated criticism always , but then later realized that was the burning fire that was making me run towards my goal.

Learn every day from anyone you see around you, might be a common man on the street or a someone who pass by while you cross the road. Anyone can bring in the motivation as simple as the tiniest ant.

Smile and wake up, win over your alarm and grab the tiniest opportunities that you can find around you. Network and be a part of things you always dreamt of doing. WE may not know opportunity comes in which way.

I even tell my kids never to be someone else , imitating someone is not the right way to be what you want. I see parents and grandparents comparing kids from the very minute they are born complaining about things not at all controllable by us – oh the baby is black, the kid is small, the kid is big, the baby doesn’t talk, the kid talks more , blah blah and much more.

I wonder what benefit do they get from all these. Hope people change their attitude for the best. Teach your kids to be good not to compete and win over from what they were the day before rather than teaching them to be someone else. Let them pursue what they want rather than be guided to do what we want them to do.

Romance and Musings

Love yourself

The best therapy to get rid of all the negative feelings that keep clouding your positive mind is loving yourself. At times self-obsession is the best medicine to overcome the illness of your mind.

When you love yourself , you start feeling confident on whatever you do, in a way that positivity reflects in all the relations too. No one is perfect in the world, perfection is attained with confidence and handwork.

At times when am feeling low , even the big from my daughters making me feel special, worthy in their life ,benefits me to revive from problems. The way my girls hold me tight and kiss me lovingly makes me happy and full of joy. I share my happiness and joy with my loved ones and keep them happier too.

If you stay happy , you keep everyone happy. At a time the magic wand is in someone’s hand for whom your heart melts for. At times the magician doesn’t know the worth of their magic and stay away from doing it. If you are the reason for someone’s smile be that forever .

To keep others happy ,first you have to be happier, that is the magic of selfless love. Haven’t you noticed that when you baby smiles you automatically cannot stop yourself from smiling? Happiness is contagious. Enjoy and live your life with the joy of being yourself. No one can love you more than you yourself.

Never give up on heartbreaks.If you stop being passionate about life , you cannot pass through your obstacles.Depressions, worry, stress everything comes to you when you forget to pamper yourself.

Love and spread love.