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Article updated on 10/29/16

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“Makeshift” your aspirations

I remember the time when I started my career in Testing , everything was good and fine. I felt I enjoyed it too and of course learning a lot was an integral part of it, but again I felt I was lacking something. Again another year went by, I had more responsibilities on my personal front as well as official. Yet ! the void in work continued. The joy was dead on the job other than few good friends nothing just motivated me to go to work.

Finally, I did leave and was lost in Parenthood. A new way of life changed all the perspective. The thought of leaving for a job ,without seeing my kid for hours was indeed painful so, instead of taking up the pain, I just thought stopped the thought of getting back to work.

A new world of writing came lingering into my thoughts then. I tried blogging but was not a professional yet. Yet there was fun, relaxation, happiness and more over a satisfaction that ran across me.

Again with the second one, parenting was more fun, an extreme weary task , yet their smiles just brought smiles on my face. So it was for sure that I never wanted to leave them and go away anywhere at any point. It was my true selfishness to be their mom and be with them that kept me away from anything I did.

Finally with the random motivational hint that came from the thought of making a career was bothering me and almost made survival a question , to my luck instead of asking I was given a job.

“Makeshift”

I was sure – that was the turning point in my whole set of thought. I never knew I would be so happy to work in this way in the comfort of my home, watching my kids grow up right in front my eyes( Indeed need more eyes, to focus on work as well as kids).

And I was happy to make a change to my life goals. I am proud of what I did because I realized “I AM HAPPY , And CONTENT” . So finally all the troubles and weary thoughts were never gone wasted.
Everyone’s life has a path, and whatever happens, you end up doing what you are supposed to do in life. No matter what happens.

An idle dream :)

There it was just me sitting reading a book, watching my favorite movies and kids playing calm and quite. All my house is just clean and clear except for the normal mess made by my Lil darlings , which has become an integral part of our interior nowadays. And as I turn the pages I just doze off .

As I open my eyes, here I was on the bed , and it was just a dream. Two days as my hubby was going to native, I was dreaming to take off from everything and enjoy my break time and be with kids. I thought I could make some simple food and adjust .

It was all just a dream for being idle.

All the day from the time he left ,I was attacked by a maniac in me ( which was hidden and suppressed for years) to clean up everything. I was like a walking talking broom and mop. All day , I was busy cleaning up and decluttering my house. And at the end of the first day, there was a tint of satisfaction rolling over my head. And the second day again , the maniac was woken up , and again up for cleaning all the mess ,which were neglected purposefully due to laziness.

Finally, as I thought that the cleanliness maniac has won over my lazy mind, here there comes the mighty laziness with my husband’s arrival back to power. And my house again getting messier.

Hope things change again.And I would accomplish my dream rather than been a clean monster.

Will just a career help women ?

I have been associated with some volunteer groups who are working towards providing excellent career opportunities to women who are on break. I appreciate the time and effort they all spend in bringing an opportunity for women whose resume has being dumped because of a gap , which they have taken for specific reasons like – family, kids, travel and much more. Our society has always turned them down , and here a bunch of women who work towards their welfare. Am happy to be a part of JobsForHer.

But.

Few questions still linger in my mind –

Is a career enough for building a strong woman ?

Will that be enough to bring in a perfect life?

It is tough to answer that. A career , be it for a man or woman , they need to work together for their equal success. As women are excellent multi-task she is always expected to manage everything on her own. While for men -finance and work are the only things to be managed. Both gets equally stressed out. At times they forget that life is sharing and caring. And they need to work together than race against each other.

We in Indian tradition and culture have taught girls to sacrifice rather than living their life. Even if they grab a career , it will be just secondary , as they have to struggle through the toughest parts and finally be exhausted. Men, on the other hand, love women who sacrifice and live in a cocoon , that is only when they feel the power of caring. Hence a majority of men and women need to understand the need of co-existence and live a life happier for both not just for one alone. Otherwise, the marriage becomes meaningless.

Getting on a career is not only the important part of life for women- tagging your family along with your journey together is also important. Yes, ofcourse it is not just her task- he should also walk along hand in hand.

The heart attack moments

Having kids is like living in total chaos.

Yea- am relating to it every moment of my life. I wonder why kids end up doing things that seriously give us an attack. Luckily am pretty sure ,there is no mom died due to such heart aches.

Sometimes my younger one ends up doing things totally weird that even at some moments I wonder whether to smile or just get angry. I hide my smile while I look at her angrily, assuming that she is not going to repeat it again. Unfortunately, it’s just a wish ,that never came true.

Even as simple as sitting on a chair , she climbs it and sits in an odd way, that every microsecond, my heart will be pounding as if it will just pop out. Until she relaxes and sits on the chair, My heart will be giving a hard time to me.

As she runs across to hug her sister back from school, leaving my hands, at times I just shut my eyes, unable to tolerate what the scene would be. I hate to see her hurt .She turns half her face towards me and runs towards the front, not even noticing what actually lies in her front ,even if it is a big pillar.

It is all hit and miss life for her. And for me, a life full of minute heart attacks and panic attacks.She is creating sweetest memories though through these minor attacks. 

I wonder when she is going to walk and run steadily at times. 😛