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Caring

 

 

I can see my lil one growing up to be a caring and loving sister to her younger sister.

I feel so proud when I see her taking care of her, she helps me to feed her , picking up the things i ask when am busy with her younger sister, making her sleep . Whatever she is busy with , she leave it , immediately seeing her sister awake. She likes to play with her ,all the time ,and even like to put her to sleep by singing for her.

I love the way she helps me to put her to sleep , which is toughest thing for me to do,the moment she starts singing for her, she gets her to sleep . As all other kids ,she gets angry and jealous too ( of course she is a kid too) sometimes. She copy whatever we keep telling to her baby sister. When I  play with her , she immediately leaves whatever she does and comes and join us.

Truly with all these magic around  me

, I feel having two ids is really a double blessing , of course there are hardships , troubles, we loose lots of patience , we shout , cry , everything happens , but that’s life. 

And am enjoying it a lot as a mom .

job or parenting ????

 

A common dilemma  in a woman’s  life , is choosing between something she wants to do and something she likes to do.

A job, is something she wants to do , to become independent and earn on her own than asking anyone else . But even being a full-time mom also she wants ,because she does it out of unconditional love. Being mom , was something I chose to , for my lovely daughters , because  I want to be with them in every step of their life, every move they make, I want to be a silent contributor, I treasure these as the most beautiful memories and moments in my life.

I know how much other moms miss , when they go for jobs, and some don’t , it’s up to every individual how they can manage everything. I opted for being a full-time mom, as I cannot manage a job as well as my family , may be am not perfect enough for the same, but I love being mom than being an employee…because job never gives me a satisfaction of being a mom. 

For every woman , there is a point of time ,when they have to sacrifice few things, but am sure its just a wise decision , for me I didn’t want to miss my kids presence , I feel so empty when am without them.  I advised many mommies , depending on how their kids react to their absence , if the kids need their mommies , then am pretty sure , they should be  with them. 

You can get a job anytime , but kids , they grow , and by the time you are out of job, you feel , you have missed many things . And of course  being mommy is a full-time job , giving us the best satisfaction ever in our life.