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I need my mom-always and forever

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Yes , am proud to say that am a mommy’s girl. It doesn’t mean that I never fight with her, but I love her the most in my whole world. She is my role model, she is my guide, mentor, teacher, a mother and what not .

Though I am running my family in a different world ,which is almost my nest, but my home and my mom is the world’s safest place for me. My days start with the messages from her, gone are the days when I used to be called up to wake up by my mom. I used to remember those days quite well enough, my school and college days when she was my alarm. Now am the alarm- a mom in the making.

I can never be like her, though I adore her so much. I wish I could be at least a little perfect like her. Even though I pose a stronger side of me to everyone , at times when am alone and feeling pain- I miss her the most.

A mom can never be replaced – the minute I call her, even miles apart, her words are comforting . Even though far away, her voice is like a soft touch on my soul, making me relax- whispering in my ears – relax dear the world is not running away- be calm.

She is the motivational factor who lets me do and conquer things which I never dreamt of ever in my life. She is like my heaven to me, where I can relax and enjoy being a child again. Everything good or bad- I want to share it with her first. There is more fun in being with her- I love the long walk to temples gossiping about everything and anything in the whole world.

Her talks make me calm and pleasant-else am too irritating usually. 🙂

I wonder what would I do- if she is not taking care of me and my family. The pillar of my home and an engineer to my home. I admit I cry at times when I miss her a lot and fuss over the phone when I am not able to reach her. Thanks to technology at least being far away- am able to hear her voice and even see her.

I wish I could be a mom like her, I know I don’t have the pinch of patience,creativity or feeling as much as she has. But of course, worth trying .

Bonding with her grandparents

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My lil one , enjoyed her time with her grandparents , and I enjoyed looking at it and recollecting my golden days as a kid.

I have noticed the changes in my cutie pie , after the arrival of her grandparents , earlier she used to call me for anything she required , now that has a second name added to her list  , her grandma . Now she knows , that the things for which she gets rejection from me , she directs it to her grandma, and immediately she is given whatever she required. 

During our childhood too we all had such experiences too , pampered by our grandparents . I don’t know what exact emotions goes in their mind, but for sure tats only love and care. There is nothing that is beyond experience , and they have loads in their life. 

Like how I used to hear stories from my grandma, I saw my lovely lil daughter , sitting and listening to the stories from her grandma. But in the end, I heard her reciting stories to her grandma too , in the same  style with all the actions and drams.They played together, draw together , even she didn’t want to me all the time ( even though it made me jealous).

Grandparents play a role model for the kids . They are like an extra parent for the kid in all the ways , even better than the parents in every way.They give the kids the sense of family and bonding.